That depends on the individual and how much effort you put in to moving forward. Lots of people sit around and do nothing but think about how much they lost and what was, those people tend to get stuck there for years, sometimes forever.
It hurts..But it can be recovered..
It takes time, but time in itself doesn't fix anything..
Its what you do with the time that counts. If you spend that time doing nothing but thinking about what was yesterday that is how you will spend your tomorrows. You have to grieve, but give yourself a limit, after that push yourself forward, no matter how much you don't want to, keep busy doing things that make you happy, at first it will serve no real purpose except distracting your brain, but eventually you will find joy in them again.
Take care of yourself physically, spend time with friends and family..Do whatever does 'it' for you. Do the things you gave up for your relationship. Soon you will find yourself understanding what went wrong and ready to try again.
After all, doesn't matter how hard yo have tried, Allah knows what is the best for you..
Be patient and remember it will get better! IT WILL!!!
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