Lepas kawin tinggal sendiri atau rumah in law?

Otw blk td, tibe2 sy call suami ajak blk rumah mak..sbb dh lama x tdo rumah mil..

Tbh, before kawen mak saya pesan tanya bakal suami siap2 nnt dh kawen tinggal mana..

N suami jawab tinggal dekat bangi..ok, maksudnya tinggal sendiri..Alhamdulillah..

Tp hakikatnya, lepas kawin suami bawak tinggal rumah mil 🤣

Suami anak bongsu. Mula2 agak awkward tinggal rumah mil..tp lama2 sy belajar tolerate..mula terima kenyataan its ok if this make him happy..

Tapi... bile dah duduk 1 rumah ni..bile terasa hati dengan suami, hanya bilik air la tempat menangis..bile gaduh dgn suami, 1 famly tau..n 1 family krik krik 😂.

N time tu, slalu pujuk suami balik bangi..slalu ajak suami tggl sendiri..bukan sbb x suke famly in law..tp sbb sy btl2 nak berdikari..

Alhamdulillah..lepas raya kami slowly duduk sendiri..

Sebenarnye, pd sy duduk mana2 pon ade pro n cont nye..

Selama tinggal dgn mil, sy xde masalah lgsung..rezki saya dapat in lawa yg sgt baik..sgt memahami..n syg sy mcm syg anak sendiri..n hikmahnya, sy dpt blend dgn family suami very well..

tp kesan nye, sy jadi makin manja..makan pakai mil uruskn..setiap hari bwk bekal ke tempat kerja..dan urusan suami, xde apa yg sy buat..n berat naik 5 kg 😂

Bila duduk sendiri, sy mula belajar jd wife..mula belajar masak..mula belajar urus kn suami..cuma urusan kerja rumah bahagi2 dgn suami sbb sama2 kerja kn..n yg best nya, rs lg mesra..sbb wpon bergaduh ttp akan berckp (sbb dh xde org lain kn dlm rumah tu)..ttp dok2 sama2 tgk tv..ttp makan sama2 kt dapur..n sy pastikan setiap pagi b4 pg kerja, suami akn breakfast dlu, hatta hanya telur separuh masak 2 biji walaupon tgh gaduh 🤣

So duduk mana2 pun sama..cuma lebih sronok duduk sendiri..sbb bole manja2 dgn suami lebih sket 😍

Ok, sekian.
💖

1st Anniversary

10.11.2018.

1st anniversary! Alhamdulillah..

Xtau nk tulis kat mana supaya en suami x baca (iols malu 🙈).. mujur ade blog yg hidup segan mati x mau ni 😂

Kisah kehidupan..kdg2 ada yg perlu ditulis..utk kenangan masa depan..

Setahun di alam perkahwinan..pahit manis suka duka gembira bahagia hanya Allah yg tau n hanya kami yang rasa.. alhamdulillah, syukur bertemu jodoh dengan suami walapun disaat yang tidak dijangkakan..malah dengan org yg jauh skali dalam jangkaan..sungguh! Jodoh itu rahsia Allah.

Suami.. dari dunia yg berbeza

Isteri.. juga dari dunia yg berbeza

Dan cabaran pertama.. untuk temukan dunia yang berbeza di satu titik kehidupan..permulaan sebagai suami isteri soleh dan solehah..dan keluarga yg sakinah mawaddah warrohmah..

Kerana..kisah kami bukan seperti kisah cinta biasa..perjalan rumah tangga kami jauh berbeza dr org lain..

Setahun pertama..airmata menjadi senjata isteri..kesabaran menjadi kekuatan suami..dan kerana Allah sentiasa menguji hamba2 yg disayangi, maka hanya iman la yg mengukuhkn kasih sayang..mengerat kn hubungan..smoga kami sentiasa dalam redha dan rahmat Allah..

Happy anniversary abg..sorry blm tak pandai nk wish yg sweet2 n best2 😂

InsyaAllah..satu hari nnt Allah perkenan kn doa kita tuk jadi ayah n ibu..

Aamiinnn..

Dugaan Bertunang

Org kata bertunang ni banyak dugaan.

For the past few months slalu tertanya2 apa dugaan org bertunang..

Rimas? X..sbb jarang jumpe

Bergaduh? X serious..sbb slalunye bwk bincang

Tak nak teruskan? Alhamdulillah..stakat ni xde lg rs mcm tu..tp skali skala rs xnak kawen tu mmg dtg dan pergi 😭😭😭

So apa ye?

EMOSI TAK STABIL!

haaa..jgn igt x gaduh x nak putus tu bermaksud kite x diuji.. sbb ujian emosi ni lebih stress💆

since last 2 weeks emosi i ols mcm tissue..kejap basah kejap kering..almost everyday nangis..kdg2 baca msg om pon bole nangis..dah kenapa?? 😠

Tp menurut org yg berpengalaman ini adalah normal..makin nak dkt makin macam2..

So uols i normal k..

N today i knew that bukan sy je yg di duga..paji jugak..sekuat2 lelaki, tetap ada emosi...kesian plak..sbb i ols mmg mcm2 dgn die..

Dah kurang dr 2 bln..

Smoga Allah beri kekuatan to both of us..n permudahkan urusan kite..

Amiinnnn...

Yg benar,
Om ❤ naa

Rahsia Allah

Rahsia Allah ni sememangnye diluar pengetahuan n kawalan kita manusia biasa.

Bertahun2 bercinta..sekejap ok sekejap x..kadang2 nak..kadang2 taknak..akhirnya ajal yg memisah kan..rahsia Allah bahawa mmg bkn jodoh kita.. (Alfatihah buat Muhammad Hafiz b Abd Latif)

Bertahun2 cube melupakn..bangkit dr kesedihan..dan teruskan kehidupan..

Puas cari..merata dunia jalan2..rupanya jodoh yg dicari ada di depan mata..di saat hati sudah berhenti berharap..n di saat diri dah sedia untuk single forever 😅..

Tp sapa sangka kn..bertahun2 kenal..xde sebarang tanda pon..kwn2 je yg super excited..lama fikir..akhirnya jurang perbezaan bukan lg alasan utk mengelak..

Pesan si die, sandar kn pd Allah..istikarah tanpa jemu..petunjuk x semesti dtg dlm bentuk mimpi..rs tenang n selesa pon 1 petunjuk..n yg penting restu family..maka,sy kini sudah berlapang dada.. Insyaallah..

Alhamdulillah..dah 5 bln jadi tunangan..smoga Allah permudahkan jalan ke depan kami... Aamiinnnn

*ada byk yg nk ckp..spy x lupe 1 hari nnti..xpela..nnt kite throwback slowly2 k..

Love,
Om❤naa

Pilihan

Dalam hidup ini ada banyak pilihan
Baik atau buruk
Cepat atau lambat
Dekat atau jauh

Tapi saya, memilih untuk tidak kecewa.

#suketapitakut

Love,
myself

Toughest weeks!

Homak ai dkt setahun x tulis,  hampir lupe ai ade blog...

Sj nk ckp this 2 weeks was very tough..but managed tu face it n still standing. 2 down n 1 more to go..yeayy! Alhamdulillah

#HRCSWorkshop2016
#HRCSAwayDay
#MSB

Byk sgt permainan emosi seminggu 2 ni...smoga tabah dan baik kesudahanya.. Amiin..

Love,
Myself!

Tough day!

Today was a tough day..very tough indeed!

Never once i imagine that i got shouted..but today it was..thank you raja!

Gigih tahan air mata! Xnak keluar dr meeting! Xnak tunjuk lemah...esp when i saw my fren beside me was still stay strong..

Not talking even 1 word..not looking at others..n keep holding the tears..But eventually i still need a toilet..there u go..bercucuran air mata maklong dlm toilet..hahaha..

And when i entered the meeting again, it was kak nad's turn..to go out and find a place to cry..n never come back..haha..i thought she was stronger than me..

But then it was a lifetime lesson..part n parcel of being in GMS..doing the project..

My best boifren said: sabar..sikit je lg tu..

*if only he knows how much i want to leave all this..

But If Allah brings u into it,trust Him! He will bring you through it..

This was my msg to kak nad..to keep her strong..n keep me stronger..InsyaAllah..

Untunglah orang yang di uji

Sy malas menulis..tp hr ni sy sedih..maka sy terpaksa la tulis..hehehe

Musim ppa semua org takot..tp ade sorg kakak ni ckp if u hv the capability n drive definitely u will still relevant to the company..betul tu kakak! 😆

Sy pgang kata2 tu..sy work harder..n sy trust everyone around me.. but smhow there is people that cant treat everyone fairly..😢

Being assigned to 2 tasks is very challenging! Operation+project=life sedikit haru biru..but i will still do the best💪💪

My portion for project is 50%..but im sure everyone akn cntribute habis2an.. but if the trusted person denying ur effort that was soooo sad..n even sad when he sad he hv to give to other people when the fact is u did that tgther..n did more..😤😤

Rating is just a no..even monetary is only temporary..but this is motivation that we talk about..

N today 1 kakak posted in her facebook "untunglah org yg di uji".. Alhamdulillah sejuk hati..

N 1 friend said, penat..tp ikhlas kn hati..sbb Allah mngetahui..Alhamdulillah..lg sejuk hati..

☺☺☺

HR Conversation

Yuhuuuu....

After a long break now im back..just bcz i wanted to let out this sooo bad but dont know where to write...hmmmmm...

Im now at HR conversation.. n supposed to learn about hr transformation, operating model, gts, evp bla bla bla...

But what i learnt the most yesterday is all about people...from the team activity until sharing session, its all about dealing/managing people n i was suprised on how certain people behave..especially when i think i know that people very well... honestly this made me upset n shut me down for a while but after the inspiring session, i realized that negative vibes wont bring you anywhere..so be positive! (thanks tok ha for your wise word)

They said people changed! N its comes with position..but to me, it also comes with  people who are surrounding u...thrfore what i want to take away today is keep cool, calm n collected

Than you.

Dicintai dan mencintai

"Rasa dicintai dan rasa mencintai adalah dua perkara berbeza" -NR

Sebak n sesak nafas saya lepas terbaca fb update sahabat sy 😢

Sy pernah dicintai..tp kini sy hanya mencintai..

#Alfatihah

Pentingnya Faham

Pentingnya faham tentang sabar dan doa!

Tersentak hati..kadang2 kite lupa kite semakin jauh dari Allah.. maka Allah ingatkn kite dgn cara yg sgt cantik..

Pengisian tazkirah hari ni btl2 mngusik hati.. btl la taman raudah tu cantik..kerana kita saling memperingati..n tempat solat yg terbaik adalah dimana azan dilaungkan..*sedih & sebak*.. sbb dh lama x pergi masjid 😢

*sekadar peringatan utk diri sendiri..

Yes Man!

Teacher:  what do u think the meaning of Yes Man?

Me: smone who will do everything when being asked to

Student A: kuli/balaci

Student B: coward

Student C: kaki bodek

Student D: kaki sapu

Hmmm...too many intrepetation..but the conclusion is you are what u think!

*im glad that i think that in positive way..n i hope i would still be positive with any people n wht kind of situation..fighting!!!!

Myteksi

Sy jarang naik teksi..sbbnye takut 😱..paling jauh naik teksi dr kl sentral tu dayabumi..

Tp hari ni terpaksa naik teksi 😟 (n time2 mcm ni mesti tringat kt arwah..Alfatihah)..ok sekian iklan..back to teksi, maka sy pun install la myteksi..sgt sng n selamat..kejap je dh ada driver teksi call..n disebabkn kene tggu dlm 15min, driver teksi tu xnak ambil rm2 tu..sy nk bg tp die insist xnak sbb die lambat..smoga driver murah rezki pakcik teksi ni..

Ni dia booking saya☺

Baby V

My baby is going back home soon..but in the meantime,i hv to get a new home for you.. rest assured u will still be taken care tho three is new one..

U r the best baby ever..sgt berjasa n sgt byk kenangan.. Thats why i will not let u go any further..

Stay strong n be good to my brother k..

Plat kereta

Hmmm...Ssh btl nak consistent update blog..semuanya ikut mood..hehe..

Anyway hr ni nk cerita psl beli no plat kereta..ms 1st car semua agent yg setel kn..tp kalo ni agent suruh bg few choices of no sbb die x guarantee akn dpt the 1st choice..

Ade byk cara nk dpt no:
1. Tender no plat anda..tender normally akn buka lbh awl dlm 2 bln..so dh bole plan siap nk no apa n huruf akhir apa..
2. Mtk agent yg uruskn..tp normally agent akan charge mahal sket n belum tentu no yg kite nk akn dpt..mine agent mtk rm500
3. Running no..yg ni kalo sape yg x kesah dgn no plat bole mtk agent beli kn running no..harga dlm rm210 je
4. Beli sendiri via mysikap..tp kene pg jpj daftar mysikap dlu..

Oleh kerana sy seorg yg sgt determined,maka sy pilih utk beli via mysikap..sbb no plat tu kite akn bwk kemana2 n utk longterm..sbb tu sy usaha sendiri..sy book kereta dh lama tp terpaksa delay sbb nk tggu huruf F.. maka bermula la hobi tgk running no pagi petang siang malam..

Ms cuti CNY, no tu bergerak sgt perlahan..dlm hati 2 minggu br dpt nim.tp suprisingly lps raya cina no tu gerak sgt cpt.. Alhamdulillah akhirnya dpt jgk no yg nk..bile nkmpk je no tu tngan mngigil2 beli..sbb tkot xdpt..hahaha..

Moral of the story, di mana ade kemahuan disitu ade highway..kdg2 kite cari pertolongan org..tp Allah bg ilham lain utk kite setelkn sesuatu..

2wd or 4wd

It took me about 2 month to decide to buy new car..n when it is confirmed, i took another 1 month to decide whether i should take 2wd or 4wd..even after paying the booking fee i still cannot deicide..

Haishhh!!why its sooo complicated ni..

I havent decided 2wd or 4wd n now hrv is coming out!

Stressss!

Have faith and stay strong!

"Saya kagum dgn fiza..n i wonder how can u be so strong..if me, dah lama dh nangis"

Someone said that..i was never think that there are people see me that way at work..n true enough,i have pulled all myself together to be at this stage..

N until now, i still keep talking to my self to stay, to have faith n to do the best..

Aamiinn...

Mari belajar piano

Hari ni 2nd clas..1st class last week (17.01.2013) dh blajar right hand n left hand..tapi hari ni jari jemariku masih keras kematu..

Bukan sng nk belajar instument disaat umur begini..bertabahlah maklong! Jgn give up..kalo rasa nak give je igt la bahawa duit telah ramai dikeluarkan utk beli keyboard..hehe..

1 hari 1 resipi

Btw tajuk ni xsesuai dgn sy..sbb sy setiap hari xde resipi..hehe..dapur jarang berasap..berasap pun hanya utk masak maggi..

Rasanye semua org dh ade buku ni..sy je yg br beli..tu pun sbb ade diskaun yg best sgt2..tp xpe,org kate better late than never..so same je la kn better ade than takde..muhaha..

Ok,happy cuci mata for me (sbb cnfirm x masak..hehe)

Kenapa Maklong?

"Tu la ckp maklong xnak dgr..maklong dh pesan awal2 dah..bla bla bla bla.."

Saat sedang sronok sy membebel kt team member tibe2 ade sahabat tanya:

"Hang anak sulung ka?"

Hahaha..msk kwn sy yg ni,tah brapa org dh yg tanya..

Sy bukan anak sulung..sy anak ke 5..tp sy xtau sy 'mak' ape sbb anak2 buah pggl sy mama n anak2 org lain pggl sy auntie..tp kalo membebel kt team member sy mmg suke bahaskan diri maklong..nampak gah gittew...hehe

So kenapa maklong?

Yg pertama, sy rs sejak entry ni la sy mule biasakn diri maklong..wlaupun khoyr belum bercakap n x pggl sy maklong tp sy rs dekat dengan arwah n keluarga bile sy sebut perkataan maklong.. Alfatihah untuk arwah

Yg kedua sy rs image maklong itu sendiri tu..sbb rumah sy ade seorang moklong..anak buah sy slalu ckp moklong garang macam harimau..si afina plak tnya nape maklong xmcm mamano..mamano x bekeng..wpon moklongnye slalu ckp mamano mcm angry bird,tp mamano tetap baik di hati anak2 buah..muhahhah..

So phm2 la ye kenapa maklong..hehhe..abisla ai kalo moklong sebenar baca entry ni 